If you know us, and most of you do, then you know that we
tend to parent on… well, lets call it a very long leash. We believe that
skinned knees and dirty faces are the signs of a well spent childhood. We think
kids should climb trees and play in the mud and ride bikes to the local market
without parents hovering. But with all the freedoms we allow our children, we
are sticklers about a few things. The first of which is manners, because there
is no excuse for bad manners and no reason not to teach children when they are
very young. And bed times, because I need the extra couple of hours of quiet
time and alone time with my husband and they need the sleep. And in the summer
time when it seems like it should be endless outdoor fun, my kids have to do
some reading and writing (and occasionally math facts, but we’re not that great
on those) every morning before they can go out.
This
last one applies even and sometimes especially when we’re traveling. Here in
Alaska our routine starts with breakfast together and then we get
dressed and tidy up our space. Right now that involves the kids stuffing their
sleeping bags and putting away their pajamas and putting on their first set of
clothes (they are currently going through 2-3 sets of clothes a day depending
on how often they play in the water). Once they’ve done these things they come
to the kitchen/dining area where I am cleaning up breakfast and they get out
their notebooks. Now my older girls, I can just set them loose with their writing. I
typically give them free reign on what the want to write. This week I insisted
that it be about Alaska so you’ll see that Tatum wrote a bit of poetry and Cleo
is doing a little reporting on our journey. Eli and Ivy Maude need a little
more help. All the kids wrote, edited and typed their pieces all week this last
week. Except for Ivy Maude, her development at this point depends on that
handwriting so hers will be handwritten. Once the children are through with
their writing and reading in the mornings they are free to the outdoors where
the rest of their learning is taking place.
I may have taken some parenting
advice along the way from A
River Runs Through It. Norman Maclean
writes, “Every afternoon I was set free, untutored and untouched until supper
to learn on my own the natural side of God’s order. And there could be no
better place to learn than the Montana of my youth”. I would say, there is no better place for my children now
than the Alaska of this summer. I decided to start a blog as a way to practice
my own writing, but I realized what a great way to motivate the kids in their
summer writing and a great experience for them to see the reaction of having it
read. If you have a moment to make a comment, do. It’s like a little reward for
their hard work.
If our family had a Poet Laureate, Tatum would be it. She got her mother's love of words and is on the way to being a better writer than I am by next year. Photo cred: Cleo |
Low-tide Island
By: Tatum Cottam
I watch the Island
Rise out of the rippling
sea,
Like a whale rising for
breath;
as the tide falls back
further,
Showing the connection,
Or bridge
Between magic,
And the science our minds
can nurse.
But,
All my science lies on the
other side,
Mixed with the bewitched
beauty of faith,
The island we can wrap our
fingers around;
Away from the plushy abode,
Where I dwell,
Now out…
away.
Rush of riffling waves splatter my toes,
Toes curl under,
And the smell of magic
remembers to trot on my freckles,
Mountains of opaque reality
face,
The unconcerned reality of
my island,
I wish my eyes were big
enough to take
it all
in.
Cleo is a natural reporter, especially when it comes to exposing the injustices brought on by her younger brother. Photo Cred: Tatum |
Alaska: The beginning
by: Cleo
I was sick when we flew in to the Anchorage airport at 11:30 p.m. We drove to the Hampton hotel got our room key, went to our room, and fell asleep. In the morning we woke up at 7:30 a.m. even though we all fell asleep at midnight the night before. It took us a little while to really wake up. Also I had a cold so it took me a little longer. After we did wake up we went to the hotel breakfast. For breakfast I had half a waffle, a yogurt, and a hot chocolate. Then my mom asked me to help my little sister Ivy get a hot chocolate. So Ivy and I went over to the hot cocoa machine and filled the cup too high, so I asked Ivy to slurp the top but she was too cantankerous and said no, and accidentally tipped all the steaming hot cocoa on my hands! Boy, it hurt a lot. So, my mom took me back to our hotel room and put cold rags on my hands to cool the burn down. About 5 minutes later everyone came in and the first thing I said was “did you bring MY hot cocoa?” then “can we go swimming in the hotel pool?”. My dad said no and yes. ( No to cocoa and yes to swimming ). We swam for about 30 minutes. Then we went to Homer. It was a beautiful but long four hour drive. We only had one stop at a cute little restaurant 1) Because we had to eat and 2) My dad had a meeting in Homer he had to get back for.
Note to reader: This past week has been the best week of my life. But the kids needs to work on no fighting though. I hope we can stop fighting before this trip ends. By the way I am not sick any more.
Eli's avante-garde poetic style keeps us always guessing what he'll produce next. |
4 Wheelers by: Eli
Last Monday we went on 4 WHEELERS. I put my hands o n the handlebars. I went with my mom but
I want to ride by myself. Dad says maybe
next time I can steer.
Ivy Maude is interested in why things work the way they do. This is her first serious investigation. |
"Today I noticed the water is coming close to the condos. I want to know why. So I learned that when the sun and the moon are close to the earth the tide goes up and down." |
Hey Gang,
ReplyDeleteIt's Sean Stack writing. I love all of your works here!
Tatum -- You are a better poet now, than I think I will ever be!
Cleo -- I love your documentarian style. A chip off the ol' Dad block perhaps?
Eli -- How fun is it to write about exciting experiences like 4 wheelin'?!? Your writing made me feel like I was right there with ya!
Ivy Maude -- Keep asking questions! Don't ever stop!
Keep up the good work gang, can't wait to see more!